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TL;DR Strategies to avoid getting caught having an affair. I got out of my dead bedroom loveless marriage a long time ago. Doing fairly well in my current situation but thought I'd share some strategies I used to maintain several AP's in my previous marriage. Some of these have been shared in various posts before but I wanted to consolidate things here. Before I proceed, I encourage those considering getting an AP to think long and hard about it first. Have you tried to get your spouse to therapy? Have you clearly talked things out? Have you considered how you'd handle the repercussions of getting caught? The following tips will apply if you are searching to find a partner, as well as if you already have one.
Obviously set up a separate email account.
Use the "incogneto" mode of your browser when visiting dating sites, and clear your browser cache from time to time.
Do your searching, communicating on a different PC than the one you use at home if possible.
Use a messaging app like kik to communicate with others. Don't use texting on your phone. If you do, delete the texts.
Keep in mind that phone call logs can be generally be viewed on your cell phone account on your provider's website.
Keep in mind that text records can be obtained by subpoena for divorce proceedings. Again, use other apps to message partners.
Be extremely careful about allowing others to know that you see someone on the side. Just don't do it. You never know you they will react and how much of a blabber mouth they are when drunk.
Be very gradual in any changes you make in your physical appearance and personal habits (hair changes, loosing weight, new clothes, dental work, etc.)
When around your SO, be conscious of any changes in how much time you spend on your pc or your phone....changes can signal something is up.... have a game running so you can toggle to solidare or backgammon quickly if needed.
Set up a free google voice # to use for phone calls if necessary. Delete call and text history in case this phone # is discovered.
Pay cash when going through tolls. Don't let your auto-payment device pay because that will be tracked by date, time, and location.... could be subpoenaed in court.
Be super cautious about revealing your real name and clear photo to potential partners online. You don't have to lie.... just be honest that you need to maintain security for obvious reasons. Once a certain level of mutual trust is built after a few messages, then disclose more info.
Avoid single people. They don't have anything to loose if they are careless about security measures and your mate finds out about your relationship. Or, if the relationship ends, some can become vindictive. On the other hand, if you have reason to believe you can trust someone you find who is single, then it will save you a bunch of money in hotels if he/she can host your meetings.
Don't use your credit cards for affair related transactions...condom purchases, meals, hotels.... all can be discovered and questioned in reviewing your credit card statement and/or brought up in court.
Don't keep receipts. Trash them someplace other than the trash at your home.
Guard against stray hairs and/or fragrances that can be discovered in your car or on your clothes.
Have an explanation for any changes in your normal schedule. Why are you 2 hours late getting home every tuesday? Avoid a schedule pattern anyway.
Validate changes in your life.... exercising more.... after your annual physical report that your cholesterol is too high or weight, pre-diabetic, etc.... so you need to start going to the gym. Then make sure you do sometimes go to the gym. Are you clothes sweaty after a workout? Don't go home smelling like pussy or perfume/cologne when you said you were at the gym.
Was working late a cover for your date? Then go back to the office and call home to let hehim know you are on the way home from the office ( a true statement). Use the office phone for the call so it shows that in caller ID. 19) Do you always answer your cell or immediately reply to messages when your SO contacts you? Stop doing that. Train hehim to expect that sometimes you don't reply right away.... left your phone on your desk at work or in the car when you went into the mall... let your battery die. Turned your phone off during a meeting and forgot to turn it back on...... this should be a normal part of your lifestyle.... not a change that will be detected. 20) Join meetup.com and attend events with people that your SO doesn't know. Use these events for cover for time away. 21) Some affair related expenses require the use of credit cards. Buy visa gift cards and don't use your personal credit card. Note that some sites like Ashley Madison are based outside of the USA and most gift cards purchased in usa grocery stores are only good to be used within the borders of the usa. Don't ask me how I know. Read the fine print on how these sites can accept alternate forms of payment. 22) How do you buy these gift cards without it showing up on your statement? Buy a bunch of other stuff to add up to a large grocery bill and that card is buried among all of the other stuff. Destroy the receipt. Don't use your rewards ID either since that account will keep account of all of your purchases. Also, you could just say it is for a bday or holiday gift for a relative that you would normally send a gift to. 23) Use cash. How to you explain the cash withdrawal? Don't use your bank. In stead, buy stuff at CVS, or Walgreens, or anyplace that lets you make "debit" purchases. Then get cash back. Accumulate that cash over time to pay for what you need. Buy something at home depot or lowes. Make it a debit purchase. Wait a few days and return it. Instead of refunding to the card, just ask for cash. This won't work for a credit purchase. 24) Always have plausible explanation for things. The person your SO's cousin saw you with is a realtor and you had been talking about finding an investment property. 25) Don't explain too much. Overcompensating by having too much to say is a signal of deception. 26) Be ready to let your AP know that you have to take a break for a couple of weeks or more if your SO starts to get suspicious. Then keep doing the stuff you said you were doing....gym, working late, shopping, etc. 27) Don't get a traffic or parking ticket at a time or location outside of your normal patterns. 28) I don't recommend it but if you are going to your AP's home, then carry in a toolbox, or Avon bag or something that can be explained to a nosy neighbor. 29) Turn off the cell phone location tracker on your phone. If your spouse asks why, then share your conspiracy theory concerns about the government tracking everyone or some other bs. 30) You can consider getting a separate credit card for your extra curricular activities. Keep in mind that the statement must not be mailed to your home where the spouse can find it. Also note that if you ever have to pull your credit report then this card will be listed and your spouse may ask about it. Also, how would you make payments to this card without leaving a digital trail of that payment from an account your spouse monitors. 31) You can rent a hotel/motel room for just one night and pay cash. However they may put a hold on your credit card for 24-48 hours. It is risky to do this on your personal card. You can try using a visa gift card. Edit: 32) Have your dates away from your normal patterns of travel: next town or two away. This reduces the chance that someone you know will see you out with your AP. Better yet...don't go out in public with your AP or at least no PDA's. You don't want your car or your face recognized by anyone in the circle of your friends and family. If you make it this far, thanks for reading. This list is not comprehensive. Others will surely be able to add some additional info or add detail to things I failed to make clear.
2020.08.22 07:57 NissaTheSereneI have had 2 N exes over the last 3 years, both have cheated on me. Fml
Nex 1 told me he was going on a “dating site for palyamoury” to find us “a threesome partner” I did not consent for this. He just started browsing on websites Ol naive me didn’t really comprehend that the “dating “website “Ashley Madison” is strictly for infidelity — he explained it as a polyamory website. Before I questioned him further he created this elaborate distraction tactic where he told his mom all about it (also outing me out of the BI closet) He also was super super obsessive about me apparently cheating on him. At the end of the relationship he kept accusing me of cheating on him. It was also a tactic he used to control me. I talked to my therapist and this is classic narcissist projecting behavior. He was the one cheating so he obsessively blamed me of cheating to make him look innocent and the victim Nex 2 tried triangulating in our 3 month monogamous relationship. Once I put and end to it he continued to stalk me for at this point now YEARS. A friend of mine looked him up on social media and it shows he’s in a monogamous relationship yet he continues to remain active on dating websites, still sends me creepy messages, and will try to flirt with me on said dating websites (I respond by immediately blocking him) I’m starting to realize based off of his patterns that he was likely cheating and it checks out since he obviously doesn’t give cheating any second thoughts So iv been trying not to think about this BUT I just need to feel the emotions of what happened. I’m MAD FuRIOUS. I have so much rage and I don’t know what to do with it...what do I do with these emotions? I’m just so angry but I need a productive way to move foward
2020.08.09 08:58 InthispapertownHow do I(28F) cope and recover?
Update: I blocked him on everything. Yesterday I got an email from him saying that he had made a huge mistake. He went through her apple watch and read where she told her friends and ex that she was only using him as a place to stay and that he took care of her. She said she felt bad and asked him to be her boyfriend. He sent me pictures and screenshots so I know that much is true. He apologized for ever accusing me of being jealous. He sent a screenshot where he told her that I was right about her and that he pushed away someone who genuinely cared about him. I didn't respond to the email. He showed up at my apartment before he went to work yesterday. He actually looked me in the eyes and apologized, which is not something he's ever done without me pushing him for one. Then he asked what I wanted from him. I said, "you're the one who showed up here. Why are you here?" I told him there was no salvaging our relationship and I didn't think we could even be friends. I told him about how fragile I was, how I thought about hurting myself. He started sobbing and hugged me and apologized for causing me to feel that way and not being there for me. I feel good. Last night was the first night I've been able to fall asleep without crying. I managed to eat today. I figured that their relationship would fail when he realized just how hard she worked to trap him. I just thought it would take longer than a week. This is going to be a long post. I don't know where else to turn to and I mostly need to vent. I'm hoping I can get some clarity and strength from posting this here with people who can relate. I feel as if I'm the dumbest fucking person to exist. I know I'm an idiot for still loving him. I'm at my lowest point. I know what I should do, but I can't find the strength to do it. I could go into all of the details, but there were so many things I overlooked, ignored, and excused away and I feel like a fool for still wanting him to be a part of my life. He has cheated on me physically with at least 4 girls that I know of, messaged countless others on SC, had a bumble and tinder account, subscribed to his friends OnlyFans, and I found emails where he had attempted to sign up for Ashley Madison. In March 2020, I reached a breaking point and signed a lease for my own apartment and didn't tell him until I was ready to move. However, I almost immediately took him back and he spent the majority of his time at my apartment. In the middle of June I had a covid scare and went into quarantine. I didn't see him for the two weeks. The two weeks I was quarantined, communication was scarce and I knew that something had happened. He of course said nothing was wrong. His birthday was at the beginning of July and he fell into a deep depression. He told me he was spiraling and asked if I could be with him to keep him grounded. During that conversation, he apologized for every wrong he had ever done me. He told me that while I was quarantined, he did a lot of introspection and realized that he sabotaged all of his relationships because he couldn't find a partner that processed emotions, actions, and consequences the same way that he did. He said if he did find a girl like that he would be miserable because she would either treat him the way he's treated all of his partner's in the past or they would treat each other the same way and be incredibly toxic to one another. He begged me to give him a chance at really changing and suggested we try therapy. I agreed. A few days later, I went to his apartment because something had been delivered there for me and I saw a condom wrapper on his floor. He and I did not use condoms and he told me that he had not slept with anyone other than me since Fall of last year. When I asked him about it, he tried to say it was an old wrapper. I kept pressing and he admitted that he had a girl over one of the nights that I was quarantined. He said they attempted to have sex, but she started crying and they ended things. I later found out that it was one of his employees. The next Thursday, he told me he was on his way to my apartment, but didn't show up until two hours later. Our apartments are 12 miles apart. He looked stressed and I asked why, but he blew it off as something to do with work. That Sunday, he told me that the employee he had slept with showed up at his apartment on Thursday because she had had a panic attack or something and didn't want to be in her own place. He left her there and stayed with me. She admitted herself into a mental health facility the next day and listed him as her boyfriend and emergency contact. While she was admitted, he had some personal issues that I went out of my way to help him solve. This past Wednesday I had an emergency at work and needed his help. I couldn't get in touch with him. I contacted the employee and she told me they were together and she'd let him know that I needed to speak to him. He told me that the employee had gotten into a fight with her roommate so he was helping her move into her brother's house. Work got worse and a very vital employee walked out. I have already been dealing with stress, so I called him when I was leaving to see if he could stay with me because I had an anxiety attack and was having chest pains. He told me he couldn't because the employee was at his apartment. I became extremely upset. I packed up all of his things that he had at my place and brought them to him. Only to find out that she had moved in with him. I had a full breakdown in the parking lot of his apartment complex. He sent me a text reading, "I didn't mean to ignore anything you said. I know you're going through a rough time right now and honestly, I miss you. I'll explain everything when we meet tomorrow. It might not be exactly what you want to hear but hopefully we can come to a solution and understanding" I went into work the next day to find out that my replacement had been hired and I'm in charge of training them. I am in a city where the only people I know are my ex and my coworkers. I have not eaten a full meal since Wednesday. I have only had 6 hours of sleep since Thursday. I am so lost, broken, and hurt right now.
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2020.07.30 02:43 EZRABRUTESingle AP's, Why are you involved with a MM/MW?
Hi All, I'm a single female (45) who's been involved with a MM (50) for just over 3 years. I met him on Ashley Madison (UK site) originally after lots of searching and when I was just about to give up he messaged me. 😉 I like my independence and have never been interested in marriage or kids but have had monogamous relationships in the past. I've felt trapped in those monogamous relationships and this feeling has had nothing to do with the partner I'm just emotionally unavailable. Therefore, I feel safer with men that are married as they will not expect me to fully commit. I can be faithful but want an easy exit should the relationship fail. This way both parties don't have to fight over children, finances etc... Me and MM have a mature mutual understanding that isn't just sex we appreciate each other too. What are your reasons behind being single and being involved with someone who's married? Do you love each other or is it just sex? Is the AP treating you better than other single partners you've met previously? Thanks in advance!
2020.07.22 08:01 SnooCheesecakes8214Any Luck With Online Dating?
Have any of you tried online dating? I'm 57, never been married, never had a GF. I've tried off and on over the years but never had success. I used to cope lots of ways including with regular visits to massage therapists. Covid's made that impossible, plus I've been furloughed from my day job so no money to do that anyway. A couple of weeks ago, I went back on POF, updated my pics, and even tried Ashley Madison. Some responses by women I didn't find attractive, but I'm thinking who am I to be picky? The women who responded all flaked after a little back and forth. Thinking about trying eHarmony which is supposed to be a pretty good matchmaker; I'm hoping they would find a female version of me, someone who's also been an FA. Anyway, what experiences have you all had with finding a partner on the web?
2020.07.16 20:30 FreckasDivorce, North Carolina 12 yr marriage to sex addict, two children one property. Attorney consultation provided very little insight. Continuous infidelity after reconciliation.
TLTR: Married to sex addict, multiple infidelities, one fetish includes cucking me or taunting me, a home wrecking fetish, home having sex with married women and gang bangs. He has a device linked to my account, he also has another device uses it to track my vehicle to make sure I am not going driving to his lovers house or following him. He has a second security system and has denied it this has been confirmed by my electronics and WiFi being off and then on and the devices being there only when those are connected. He behaves as if he is on recording voice changes he acts engaged and attentive, then goes back to normal lethargic. Purposely tries to make me suspicious in a taunting way to distract me when he knows I am suspicious, or uses it to start a fight so he can leave. It has gotten very creative as he has modified my behavior so drastically by stonewalling me when I display less desire able behavior. He orders lots of items and sells them at work 10k this year, uses points for hotel rooms and tickets, told people at his work that I am psycho tells women he is poly or in a deadbedroom. We have two cars paid off owe 50 k on the house. He makes 4K a month. He uses credit cards in the past the snowballed. He would use them to get hotel points and airline points, company would reimburse him, to his checking he never paid but the minimum. 26k in Cc debt. He has a few sexual subs (I do not permit this he does not know that I know) that are like secretaries I can not keep ahead of this. They help him keep track of things and even have a plan to destroy or erase devices if he is caught (too late) Everything I find out is always after the fact and something new and deceitful is happening. He is possibly disordered or dark triad, he definitely has a home wrecking kink. I don’t think he is evil but he is playing both sides of this and that is evil. My question: does evidence even matter in a divorce? What if he is trying to get sole custody by making me look crazier (than your normal cheated on wife) what do I need to do? Do I need to get a recording of him agreeing that threesomes with me were not permission to cheat and have affairs? Do I need to get evidence that I am a good parent since it seems he is doing that? End of TLTR—- I consulted an attorney and she said it would be a 30 day wait, she asked for my name and the receptionist as it were informed me “24 hours before your appointment you will receive a private call to let you know you still have an appt and your spouse has not consulted with us first” Is this typical, she suggested I could be paranoid. That I don’t need to keep record of anything, that she will bring the kids in front of a judge and basically say “do these kids not look happy and well cared for” I explained he is a sex addict and have suspected him being people into our home. Also while I sleep. Fidelity and infidelity: After the affair discovery About 6 months after that, I said we could have threesomes. I’ve been bisexual, but never during our marriage, I diminished that because I much prefer men to women physically and emotionally, I had experienced it prior to meeting him but never had it came up. The attorney said that if we agreed on that and only did them together it is not me cheating but is also not permission for him— yet she did not advise me to get proof of this. I think I should have proof that I was okay with a threesome, but not him dating or having sexual partners with out me (in my eyes this was something fun for us to do, but should not be looked at as a free for all or permission to cheat) ——Irrelevant details of why I feel he is tricking me: He was confronted for the initial suspicion and gaslighted me turned things around on me told me I had anxiety encouraged me to get a marijuana card discouraged prozac. He denied denied until I had proof, he admitted to only one affair, however my medical records showed one std and one sti in my pregnancy panels and post partum check up. He at the time said I caught it from the hospital towels and showed me a study. The health department explained to me about certain sti and how they have no chance of reoccurring in this manner (after d day I got std panel done) Divorce was my last option. It feels as things are progressing to a different direction than I anticipated. I do not want to ambush my Husband but I feel as though he is planning to leave. Because he is definitely still cheating. I did consult with the best attorney in town, I don’t want to consult with all of them and pull moves like that. We are in NC where you must be separated for an entire year. ——- ——- —— Assets: house owe 60k, it is worth 100k 10k my vehicle paid off 8k his vehicle, my name paid off. 10k Land from father deceased 80k Inheritance from father in a trust for two sons. (My Mother has stated she intends to leave the house and her land to me as the oldest child and my brothers do not want it as they are over seas.) She can not host my children and I as she is child free mindset. —— ——. ——- Concerns: I believe since he is unwilling to stop the affairs, that he is waiting for me to leave. He has lied to my face because I have held back into and proof to see if he will ever be truthful. This makes me realize, he honestly thinks that if he says what I want to hear, and cuddles me, that there is nothing wrong with his affairs. Except I know of them, I the issue is knowing of one revealed the ones he has with others. ——Why? Does he stay? ——- He must believe that he can pretend to be the best husband with words, but the kids a little gift and spend time during work hours with these other women some are married one is single. That he can have the best, of both worlds-unfortunately knowing of this has actually proven to me that he is either planning to leave me as an exit affair or he really thinks cheating is okay if the spouse doesn’t know. Or this is a endgame. ——what I have done to try to stop this—— I have tried to leave, and he has told me I am not taking our children anywhere, I’ve tried to make boundaries but he would stop talking to me and sometimes not respond to our children. multiple infidelities trickle truthed. He seems to only admit what I have proof of. I did drop hints but that drove him further underground. He seems to have a young gf but also a co-worker too who is married. He has a long distance affair partner, who’s husband wrote me and my husband a year after their affair supposedly ended. She blocked his account, and mine from her spouses after his initial reach out. so I was never able to read anything past “hey this is blank, I need to talk to you about you and my wife” Another message from her “my husband would like to speak to you about our affair can you call me or shall we call you” it was written from her profile and a message from her spouses to my spouse, as well as her not quoted above, to my husband. This later revealed the affair continued after Dday. She has come to our city, he has seen her in another city away from her home town. (Insignificant details) His motives: He seems to have kink or is bisexual, one of his profiles showed men sneaking women into the home while wife sleeps. Home wrecking fetishes, snapchats with a woman that challenges clients to FaceTime her while they have sex with their wife. He joined a hotwifing forum as a “bull”. He said all of this was fantasy none physical. ——- gaslighting emotional punishment, with holding as, affection, communication stonewalling me——- The emotional abusive part enters here: he has intentionally brought up suspicious things to induce a panic. True no one can make you do anything. He has started fights before entering restaurant or public places. He takes pictures where he is staring into the camera when I kiss him. He screenshots conversations out of context. ——He is gathering evidence—— For example I texted him “it is extremely obvious you are unhappy, your mistreatment of me and hot and cold behavior has confused me to the point that I wish you to be happy, if that means you want an open marriage let me know, please know that I would not want to hinder you but would expect to be not hindered” he screen shotted that text with out the previous sentence so it looks like I am asking for a open marriage. He took pictures of his own condom on a stick, from a threesome we had. He has had the internet company come several times to change the router. During his affair he encouraged me to have a emotional affair. I asked him if he wanted to see other people what his objective was, his answer was not direct he responded with “I couldn’t stand to see you with another man, no you may not see other men but maybe women”. He never answered if he was monogamous or polyamorous he said it was just free escorts to him. Over the span of our marriage his fantasies were threesomes but evolved or devolved into something of gangbangs, breeding and being a bull for hot wives. I asked him what kind of woman he thought was ideal out of curiosity he said “the only thing I want in a woman is another woman” —-evidence of his cheating—— I found chats to a woman with construction fetish, her address, tickets to her area searched not purchased, the hard hat on amazon browser, purchased said hard hat and metal clipboard. A work shirt with a fake name on it. In his email 5 days after being sent in a work trip he had a burner phone, two fake emails, accounts to fuckagranny, coffee and meet, speed dating, sex clubs, adult hookup sites and Ashley Madison. POF, zoosk, badoo, meetup. During this time he promised everything was fine even though I sensed his behavior. —Emotional abuse intended or not:—- He became like 007, his long distance affair partner gave him advice how to manipulate me, what apps to use, he has a gf that has a cuckquean fetish that he sends his conquests to. This is how I found out what he spoke about. He has told these partners that I am bi-polar, suicidal, he antagonized me on my birthday and wouldn’t speak to me until I spoke to him after he was cruel. He has invited me on a date but when a specific couple came around he refused to kiss me, I looked up and recognized this woman as a person that was always at his hockey tournaments, she got a job there and served me a beer with liquor in it. I am not a drinker and it was distinct, he tells them I am a alcoholic. Her friend came up and told me “you are wearing such old clothes that brand is so old, they don’t make it anymore, are those maternity jeans” he said nothing, then after that the woman he refused to kiss me in front of, drew hearts on my cup. Very bizarre until you read of sadist and humiliation. (Summer of 2019) His second work trip (first wrk trip was one where he met the LD Married woman) Out of the blue he will call and FaceTime me his voice sounds different and he will say something like “you look horrible in that color your hair looks like shit, you know I hate lipstick” Before this work trip he was still being secretive, had apps on his phone where he shared his location, I later find out it was to avoid running into the women, they would install it to know when each other was home and to go low contact. I stopped going to our dates because he refused to have them on any other day but the day the other AP (affair partner) worked, she would play mambo number 5, I would play him a Elvis song and she would play the same Elvis song back. She is one of three women I have proof of. It seems he wants me to talk bad of these women he tries to make me jealous of. He calls to put me on speaker phone he will say “so so at work is so black can you believe she is into crystals and gems? I thought she was just ghetto and listened to rap” he was trying to encourage me to talk crap about her or he was trying to make it seem like she is the other woman. He would send me a poem and the same poem to the LDAP, he would play songs saying this was our song, but send it to her. The last straw was a phrase she said to me over the phone to console me on discovery day word for word, I recorded it, he wrote that in the anniversary card. It is like I am being taunted. I know this sounds paranoid. ——devices I found in our WiFi—— I discovered a 2nd security camera on our WiFi I changed the password I turned the power off, it disappeared. A device is linked to my phone and blue tooth connected. The mistake he made is he used it to track where Inwas because I began driving by his work to see if he was there and by the woman’s house. (This is because of the timesheets having vacation days) he uses to track me, however he also logs into a separate apple id to use for his burner phone. He did not log out of my gmail account so a few places are there. During his work hours. He broke my phone and when I transferred photos my screenshot photo album were deleted. I consulted an attorney and she said it would be a 30 day wait, she asked for my name and the receptionist as it were informed me “24 hours before your appointment you will receive a private call to let you know you still have an appt and your spouse has not consulted with us first” ——-Currently: ——- He is being nice to me, sporadically. However, it seems he is either planning and gathering evidence, or he is gathering proof that he is unhappy. To clarify he will usually lay in the bed and do nothing as expected of someone who is tired from working. But will jump out of bed and do something romantic or as a great father, usually he can’t be bothered by our sons, screaming crying they always come to me. He speaks articulately annunciations and very loud, as if it’s so someone can hear him. 20k special vehicle for a specific trade. We have significant credit card debt. I live very frugal omg but accept that some debt is because he is the sole income earner. I’ve been unemployed or 5 years. Two children 4 and 6. Waiting for one to age into prek I became pregnant. Off topic finance clarification: The credit card debt may be apart of his infidelities. He began getting credit cards to the hotels his employer sent him to. CC with the airlines, rental companies etc. he decided mid career or at the peak, that he should change careers. Went to college and did excellent, he is very studious and bright. I love him inspite of his betrayals. He does not come forward to ask for needs or wants, I guess and trouble shoot and that can be a needy feeling and suffocating to him. Off topic clarification: My therapist only saw for three months said Some men cheat for variety, we concluded or guessed that he was conflict avoidant. This is important as it pertains to the divorce he never shares when his out of town trips will be until the day before. He never shared he was unhappy or felt the need to cheat. I just feel as if he will blind side me due to some things that are happening.
My spouse and I have been together for 10 years. No biological kids together but he adopted my kids from a previous relationship. He’s not a bad guy but we’ve had our struggles, including some ugly episodes of infidelity. At this point, we’re essentially roommates who sometimes have sex. We work different schedules so we only see one another when we both have a day off. The kids are practically adults so we really don’t even communicate about them. And since they have a strained relationship with him, they usually just come to me anyways. I haven’t been happy in a long time. Probably since I found his Ashley Madison account. Don’t get me wrong, I’ve been far from the perfect partner, but I think when I found that something clicked in my head that we didn’t belong together and that we were never going to be happy or fulfilled with one another. I wasn’t angry with him and I’m still not. Like I said, I don’t think of him as a bad guy. He’s just emotionally distant (that’s the basis for the strained relationship with the kids) but he does try to be a good person and do the right thing. He never tells me “no” and I’ve always got whatever I wanted. If I ask for help, he does it, but he takes no initiative himself. I feel like his parent instead of his spouse... I’m constantly telling him what he can spend and when, what chores need to be done, scheduling doctors and dentists appointments for him, making sure he’s getting oil changes, etc. and it’s exhausting. But I also know he loves me... even if that love is flawed and has been compromised. And I’m the type of person that will take all the hurt the world dishes out and try my best not to put any back into the world. I hate hurting others. I want to ask for a divorce but I don’t know how to do it. And on top of it all, I think my husband knows I have one foot out the door and is now trying to right all the wrongs of the last 10 years but I know that deep down that we can’t ever love one another the way the other deserves and even if we both change our ways, I just see us falling into old patterns in a couple months or years as we always have done after something has shaken our relationship. So for those who still cared for your spouse when you asked for divorce, but knew it was time to go, how did you approach it?
2020.07.01 16:17 ross2201Difficulty finding a connection
Hey fellow redditors! I’m a 36 yo male living in Indiana. I’ve been on Ashley Madison on/off for a couple of years now but have had zero success in finding a compatible partner. I met someone there last spring and we messaged each other on Kik for a few weeks, but she was never willing to meet in person. I’m an educated, professional guy, easy to talk to, fit/athletic, good looking. I guess I’m just confused as to why it’s so hard to find someone! Are there any venues other than AM that you’ve had success with? TIA.
2020.06.24 10:00 autotldrNew accounts on Ashley Madison soared by 70 percent less than two weeks after adultery was decriminalized in Taiwan last month, primarily among women.
This is the best tl;dr I could make, original reduced by 71%. (I'm a bot)
TAIPEI - New accounts on Ashley Madison soared by 70 percent less than two weeks after adultery was decriminalized in Taiwan last month, primarily among women. Within 12 days, new registrations on Ashley Madison, an online dating site marketed at people married or in a relationship, skyrocketed by 70 percent in Taiwan. Liberty Times on Friday cited Ashley Madison chief strategist Paul Keable as saying that there are 1.9 million people in Taiwan registered on the website. He said that by June 9, there were 1,360 new members based in Taiwan, a 70 percent increase over the same period of time in an average month. As for gender, the largest number of female members are between the ages of 38 and 40, while the largest group of male members are between the ages of 40 and 44. The strategist said that now that Taiwan has decriminalized adultery, members of the public may feel more open about having frank discussions with their partners on marriage and extramarital affairs.
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2020.05.30 20:37 KnightAnthonyThe TRUTH about Ashley Madison (for men)
I mocked about Ashley Madison last week, but today I'm just going to add some details about this site and most dating sites, particularly those that involve extramarital affairs. These things are -- first and foremost -- a business. Fake profiles, fake information....fake, fake, fake as fuck. Stolen pictures are rampant. People lying about age...how fat/thin they are...where they are really...OMG, anyone who has had experience know EXACTLY what I'm talking about. The people who run these sites are trying to maximize their profits off you, and you have to be one die-hard guy to stay a member. Second...women do NOT respond to men. The bots do, but real women don't. And if you're a married man who is too shy or too scared to post your real picture (unblurred), just forget about it! You are not going to be replied to. There are countless guys on these sites, most of them writing long, detailed and heartfelt profiles.....do you think women have time and energy to read everything that every man writes? No. They will go for the guys who were brave enough to post pictures. Yes, she wants to know what YOU look like before even bothering to reply. But therein lies the rub! As a married man who hopes to god that your wife or friends never see you on AM, will you ever be stupid enough to post your real picture? Well, I'm sure many do. And as sure as fuck, there are many marriages ending in divorce too. Yes, people ARE getting caught...and it's those careless ones who got too desperate and let their guards down. Third, AM and other sites make their money from men buying credits. Since no women will be replying to your lovely profiles, you end up sending messages to every girl you like. Funny how SO MANY women post pictures of themselves...so revealing...so clear....gee...do these women ever worry about THEIR husbands/family/friends finding out?? Smh @ men who think these are potential affair partners. If they are not fake, they are most likely PROSTITUTES. Yes, even escorts can dress up and show you a decent picture. And if they aren't escorts, then they are definitely women who are looking for you to pay for something. Yes....you'll find out after some back and forth with her. Guaranteed. Fourth, you are competing with men who don't give a shit about their reputations. Yep...these are the guys posting their REAL pictures. They have no shame, no sense of embarrassment. Most likely have crappy marriages, and are already known in their town as the local louse. But those who are NOT married...they have no reservations to post their real pictures! Who are they hiding from? Nobody. But just to keep things on a level playing field, most married women seek MARRIED men for AP purposes. There are a host of issues with single people, and that's a different topic altogether. But with these single guys lying about their status, they still have a better chance of gaining a married woman's attention. Why? PICTURES FROM A LIAR ARE MORE VALUABLE THAN WORDS FROM A MARRIED MAN. For both men and women, you have to use an app to know if pictures are real or fake, and I'm sure women vet these guys. At least I hope so. Yes...men post stolen pics too. So much bullshit on websites....I tip my hat to all men and women who successfully weed out all the nonsense and find their lover. Ashley Madison and other "affair websites are like a remote control.......FOR THE WOMEN ONLY! And women can go on there and simply pick a guy...any guy. If you are one of the hundreds she picked, consider yourself lucky. But that's just the beginning! She has to now vet you...make sure you are what SHE wants. And that's what's annoying about these sites.....it's entirely about her, not you. If all you want is mindless sex with no connection, than yeah...go for it. But it takes years and many thousands of dollars of investing before the average man will gain any advantage over other men to be the one women pick. There are plenty of married women out there, looking for their perfect AP. And I understand the frustrations they must go through. While men have zip responses, women have the opposite...TOO MANY! It's so overwhelming that they might as well just throw a dart and go with the guy the dart hit! Lol, wouldn't be too shocked to hear if some women follow this method! If anyone's been on speed dating or other ways of meeting men, sometimes women just follow their gut....and with AM, the picture is the first impression. So....married men I ask you.......are you ready to post your real picture? Nah, I didn't think so either :-)
2020.04.16 01:08 FurThereseCommonly used acronyms + group chat sticky.
Chat Megathread + List of Commonly Used Acronyms As the last megathread was old/archived, this is the new thread for group chats - if you are looking for one, or looking to recruit new people into your group, please use this thread. Feel free to post, repost, delete and repost as much as you like - within this thread. Any and all group chat posts outside of this thread will be removed. Any and all chat groups are something that's completely separate from this sub. Join at your own discretion. None of the /adultery mods are responsible for what goes on in these groups, nor are we (as far as I know) even members in them. Also, we are not a part of or control of any adultery-related spin-off subs, including picture-sharing subs.
None of the moderators manage any chat groups, nor are we part of any. Do not message us about joining a group.
Here's a handy glossary for adultery's not-so-secret language.
AP: affair partner
pAP: potential affair partner
LDAP: long distance affair partner
LTAP: long term affair partner
plus various build-a-bear variations involving p(otential)/x, l(ong), d(istance)/t(erm), e(motional), and AP. ex: pLDEAP.
DADT: don't ask don't tell
DB: dead bedroom
DB: dad bod, often pasty white
EA: emotional affair
FWB: friends with benefits
MM: married man
MW: married woman
NC: no contact
NRE: new relationship energy
NSA: no strings attached
ONS: one night stand
OpSec: operational security
SB: sugar baby
SD: sugar daddy
SO: significant other
There's a lot of useful information (like this) on the adultery sidebar but the sidebar is not obvious on the mobile app. Touch the three dots in the upper righthand corner of the app, then touch "Community Info." Wonders will appear. Confirmed for iOS and Android.
2020.04.09 15:26 amithewandererHe is not interested in my healing
Hello. New to this sub. 35F, married to 33M for nearly 9 years. He confessed an affair to me last year, and then shit started spiraling. Multiple affairs. Dating apps. Tons of money. I’d had suspicions for years. We were fine for the first few years, although I now question every memory. I initially tagged this under reconciliation, but that’s not quite right. We were trying to reconcile, which looked an awful lot like simply sweeping things under the rug. But then I found his Ashley Madison account, and the money he sent to his prior AP who apparently is still current, not prior. I also found his messages to a couple of other women he’s been seeing on the side, so he stays busy, I guess. I’m so over the charade. I bought that book, “How to Help Your Spouse Heal from Your Affair.” I left it on his bedside table, and he refused to acknowledge it, much less open it. After about a week, I finally asked him about it, and you know what he said? “I have no interest in that.” Literally zero interest in my healing. Stated bluntly and without remorse. It was like a slap in the face but at least now the game is over and I can move on, knowing there is no point in trying anymore. My next step is therapy to see what in the world would drive me to even bother trying to stay with this man. I can’t believe how many years of my life I’ve lost to this marriage. There’s barely any photos of me from these last 9 years. Few vacations that stopped after the first couple of years. I had wanted a family and didn’t get to have that, either. Of course, that’s probably a good thing now... I just feel so numb. The only thing that makes sense to me is that he hates me. He must hate me, right? And I just don’t know what I did to deserve it. For years, I thought I had an amazing partner... and then he started to disappear, and I stayed because I felt like he’d come back. But he never did.
2020.04.07 19:15 privatefrost2Off The Vine with Peter recap
KB asks why didn't he do press when his season ended? Says she didn't want to do press when her season ended, but she couldn't get out of it like PP did.
PP says corona stopped some of the press tour. Also, wasn't appropriate to do a press tour because he and Madison weren't in a good headspace. Needed time to reflect. Was lucky the producers accommodated that.
KB says people have been very hard on PP. Says people shit on every season, but people are still coming at PP really hard. Compares HB with Tyler and the QC, with PP going to Chicago to see Kelley.
PP says it was a complete 180 from the Bachelorette. Has heard non stop critiques. Says people might have just been really invested and that's why they were so hard on him.
KB is sympathetic. Says viewers don't see how hard it is for the lead. The blame all lands on the lead and there were many critics coming at PP which she can relate to. Says it will all blow over by the next season. Says PP grew through that process, asks his opinion on that.
PP says he knew who he was going into the Bachelor, heart on his sleeve and likes giving the benefit of the doubt. Learned to put his foot down a lot more now. Hates pissing people off or hurting people and he had to do it so many times throughout the show so it was hard. Wants to have a bit more Barb in him, being able to stand up for himself and have his voice be heard. His motto is "it's all good" and he wants to be able to admit to himself that things aren't always good and will have to stick up for himself more.
KB likes that Barb stood up for what she believed in.
PP says he didn't know there would be so much Barb time at AFR. Said it was frustrating that there wasn't more time with him and Madison. Barb was looking out for him but he wished it was less focused on his family and more time was devoted to his relationships.
KB said AFR became more about Barb and her reactions than it did about PP and his relationships. Asks what did we not see regarding Madison/Barb.
PP said in Australia said he put Madison in that bad headspace when he was trying to convince her to come see his family. Took three hours but his thought process was that his family came so far so he really wanted her to meet them. Says he might have pushed her a little too much and it was like she walked into the lion's den. His family saw all the differences and were trying to look out for him. Didn't see her after the show until she surprised him.
PP didn't know about CH meeting Madison in Auburn. A producer texted PP to say that he might see pictures online of the crew filming with Madison but he didn't know the specifics.
KB says the production was confusing. They didn't show enough to make storylines work. Didn't show enough of his relationship with HA to make it seem genuine.
PP expresses frustration with editing but understands it's only two hour episodes. Especially bad editing towards the end with VF. Editing made it seem so much crazier than it was. Editing made him seem like an idiot. They cut out a 20 minute conversation so PP looked like an idiot.
KB says it's hard because the lead can seem like the bad guy but being under contract means they can't correct anything.
PP says he's glad he has tough skin because there's a lot of critics.
KB says PP is a people pleaser like her and when she's just being herself and people still hate her, it's hard to deal with.
HA engagement: PP says he gave his heart to two people. Would have felt the same if it was HA who left abruptly. Looking back, he tried to convince himself that he was okay enough to get engaged. His feelings for HA were real but he didn't get a chance to get over his other relationship. If he didn't feel like he was in love with her, he would't have done it. Sorry that he broke her heart and things ended so badly. Told himself that time heals all wounds which was part of that thought process.
PP they had 4 happy couple weekends. Had fun with each other. Some unresolved feelings. Began realising they weren't compatible. Didn't challenge each other enough.
KB wanted to believe in the Madison love story (ie PP leaving HA for her, Madison must be his person if he's willing to do that), but then at AFR she felt no chemistry between the two. No passion or romance.
PP felt the same thing. Hadn't seen each other in person since the day at the pool. They communicated but they still didn't know how things would go. Hadn't made a decision on how things would go. Nervous and uncomfortable.
KB says you need a strong foundation coming off the show to deal with everything. AFR must have been challenging.
PP says he Facetimed Madison a lot leading up to AFR and they had some good conversations. The first in person talk they had without cameras was after AFR.
KB says fantasy suites are important so you can discuss morals etc, and on camera if the producers don't like what you're talking about they'll cut you off and make you talk about other things.
PP says he and Madison were pretty upset at AFR, went into a back room and sat and talked a bit before producers came in and talked to them some more. They left and went back to their separate hotels, she talked to her family on the phone before she went to see PP and they talked some more. Next day her mom flew out and then PP the day after spent 6 hours with Madison and they realised it was over. They laughed, cried and talked honestly. They tried and wanted it to be there, but it wasn't and they weren't compatible.
KB asks what's one thing he can't believe she hasn't asked about yet. PP: "does it started with a K?"
PP says he isn't dating Kelley. They reconnected and she's always been very supportive of him. She was dealing with something so he flew out because she was alone and wanted to cheer her up and ended up staying with her because he's still working and didn't want to risk going back to his parents house. Says they're enjoying each others time and company, she's very patient and he's very grateful for her. Says he's learned to take things slow but he loves being around her and wants to take things slow.
KB: "So you're not dating, but you love being around her and you're taking things slow?" PP: "Yeah"
KB asks does he like her as more than a friend. PP says he's crushing on her. KB says it's cute.
KB compares how HB tried it with Jed, PP and Tyler. Says she would do the same. There's connections and sometimes you might let go too soon. HB explores her options and gets praised and PP does it and is slated.
PP says it's cool to be able to explore options because the show is so unique.
Jason texted KB to say he was with PP when he ran into Kelley in Miami.
KB asks why wasn't Kelley at WTA but was at AFR and PP says they didn't give an answer really but then for AFR it was to throw off people because there was pregnancy rumours.
PP only saw Kelley at AFR when CH pointed her out during the ad breaks.
KB says her and Shawn's families weren't invited to AFR but Nick's entire family was. Producers said his family was just going to stay backstage for support but when she came out they were all front row and it really threw her off.
KB says she hopes things work out for him with Kelley because they could build a good foundation outside of the show.
PP says they're taking it slow, one day at a time.
KB says it showed up as Kelley on the zoom call (he's using her laptop) and was like "if this motherfucker tries to tell me there's nothing going on!".
PP shares a story about how he projectile vomited in a restaurant in front of a girl he liked. The restaurant's attention was on him and he had to carefully empty his vomit filled tray into the trash can and then ran on out of there. Aged 18/19.
KB asks about dealbreakers and end up talking about Kim Kardashian and PP says he caught the big fight in the latest episode (let me just say Kelley posted a pic of her watching KUWTK the other week).
They talk about grammar, how come people can't tell the difference between "your" and "you're".
KB says Jason bought her perfume once, but it turns out it was the same perfume his mom uses.
PP says there's only 10/180 people on his flights now. Airports and airplanes are empty.
They play a drinking game. Loaded questions, apparently Jimmy Fallon did it. They're roping Jason and Kelley into it. PP says he and Kelley will share the shot glass. KB says they're cute.
PP: says Ashley P was the worst kisser from his season. KB says Tanner was the worst kisser from her season.
Kelley is good friends with Kathie Lee Gifford's son, they grew up in the same place in Florida.
PP and Kelley answer "Chicago" but take a shot instead of giving the question.
KB says PP has a crush on Kelley and PP says KB needs to stop making him blush.
KB says she had a sex dream about Jason where he was a total asshole to her, and she woke up mad at him.
PP and Jason say Shakira and JLO were great at the Superbowl.
PP says he's closest with Dustin from his season, Kelley says Kelsey from hers.
Jason asks PP about career paths. PP says he'll always be a pilot (he gets half a month off), wants to partner up with a programme to encourage more women to become pilots. Still wants to try DJing, has all the software on his laptop.
Kelley says her siblings are on her to work a little harder like she used to. Tell her if she finds an interesting opportunity or passion, she can try something for a while if she wants because she will always have a job at the firm.
KB asks what's PP and Kelley's plan for moving forward. Kelley says they're not in a rush, she was mentally off after leaving the show but she and PP are having fun and enjoying each other's company so who knows what could happen.
KB says it's good they're not labelling anything because there could be less expectations. Says people have opinions and there's a lot of pressure. Jason says it used to feel like he had to tell fans about his dates with KB because a lot of people want to know this stuff.
KB says she wants everybody to have a voice because when you're on the show, you don't really get a voice.
2020.03.25 16:49 yellowdressesUpdating to finding the old the Ashley Madison logon...
It took me a while to work up the courage but I finally confronted my husband about this. He was pretty embarrassed but he told me everything about that point in his life, perhaps a little too much. He told me that though nothing became of him being on Ashley Madison there was a point in time where all he wanted to do was hurt BM in revenge. He caught her using his bank account to purchase gifts for her affair partner after she had told him that it was over. They were still living together and this is prior to the separation. He said that he would take every chance he could to embarrass and hurt BM. When they went out together he would start talking to other people at the club bar or restaurant and telling them about what she did. I know this is definitely true because he likes to chat to people and sometimes while we're even at the grocery store having a friendly squabble he will enlist the cashier to try to get her on his side. It's usually kind of a joke between us and the cashiers know how we are but once he told me these stories I can easily see how this habit of his could have been weaponized against BM. during the time that they were still living together just prior to their separation and for a time after the separation when they were still pretty involved with each other he tried very hard to go on dates and meet people and rub it in her face. This is why he made the Ashley Madison account. I think what embarrassed him the most about it was that Ashley Madison was filled with bot accounts and very few actual females. He actually brought it around and said that when he met me online for a while he thought I must be a bot account because I seemed too good to be true and I had a very generic name. though he said that probably just to gain some brownie points with me. I asked him why Ashley Madison and not just dating people he knew or another dating site and he said it was because he was still married and because BM had an affair so he wanted it to be an affair because he thought that would hurt her the most. We've been talking and he told me that he's a different person now he's more mature and our relationship is healthy. He told me that we would never let it get that bad we'd do counseling and we talk to each other. He was young and he was an idiot when he was with BM. He also said that if we ever get to the point where we hate each other and we're headed towards divorce he's not going to drag it out like it was with BM we would just call it quits and be over before we got into the war stage of it. Well that is what he said I'm not sure how I feel about it.
2020.03.06 22:20 UnorganizedErinSo Long and So Complicated
It’s approaching the 5 year mark on the 24th for my first miscarriage and the 4.5 year mark on my second. I still have so many unprocessed feelings about it, it hasn’t cropped up in a while but it has today and I need to write it out. So I thought I’d do so here, also apologies if the flair is wrong. 5 years ago I was a pretty fresh 18 and had been in an incredibly toxic relationship for 7 months at that time. I was going through so much stress between that, my family moving in with my step father, and school. It makes sense as to why it happened, all that and birth control. I couldn’t have a child then, it was almost a relief, but the heartbreak was confusing. It still is. It was an early mc, I told my now ex and he asked me multiple times if I was faking, tried to break up with me, so on and so forth. Finally he took my word for it. We went to a park and wrote letters to our unborn son, Caspar. He chose the name. It was too early to know the sex, but I felt he was a boy. Then in September I noticed similar symptoms, took a test, and I was pregnant again. Our relationship was 10x as toxic and I was now at university. I miscarried my second time in my dorm bathroom. Alone. 4 days after finding out that he had been trying to cheat on me on an Ashley-Madison-esque website. He was saying he was married and looking for older women. He’d made the account a few days after the first mc. I had hacked in and saw everything. I’d never felt so betrayed. I still don’t know why I stayed for another year and a half after that. Our second was Eve, I don’t remember how we named her. A lot of that time is unfortunately dark and foggy because so many challenging and traumatic events. I hardly told a soul apart from him, he told his parents but they did nothing. I could not tell mine, they hated him and they’d just be happy I wasn’t pregnant. We broke up a few years ago. It feels like the memories of my babies died with that relationship. I can’t share them with anyone else. I adore my current partner, he’s the love of my life, I know he experienced mc’s with some of his ex’s but I am too scared to tell him I experienced them. Regardless, what would it matter to him? It’s hard to process the relief of knowing I was not an 18 year old mother with the sadness of losing my babies. I look at the kindergarteners I work with and it stings knowing I’d have a child their age about now, I’d be registering my baby for kindergarten. But it’s made completing school easier. I don’t know, I don’t even know why I’m writing this. Maybe to get feelings out I’ve been bottling up for so long...
2020.02.15 16:08 nipples_brown_area[Debate] Swipe Left to Date: Romance is dead thanks to Dating Apps
Swipe Left to Date: Romance is dead thanks to Dating Apps Preface Every day millions of people turn to dating apps to find love. To date, more than 22 million Indians have given digital dating a try and the companies facilitating these matches are raking in billions. But are dating apps really designed to promote long-lasting romance? Apps like Tinder and Bumble make finding a date as easy as swiping right, while digital platforms like Match.com and OkCupid use specialized algorithms to help users find the perfect partner, regardless of age or personal preferences. While some niche dating apps marketed to people who are married or in relationships such as Ashley Madison have left a rather radical imprint on our mind. There is evidence that marriages that begin on dating apps are less likely to end in the first year, and that the rise of dating apps has correlated with a spike in interracial dating and marriages. Dating apps may be a site of neurotic turmoil for certain groups of young people who don’t feel they need quite so many options, but it opens up possibilities of romance for people who are often denied the same opportunities to find it in physical spaces — the elderly, the disabled, the isolated. Some argue that online dating has its value for building confidence, but some also do believe for an individual who truly wants to meet someone with longer-term goals in mind, they need to be honest with whom they are and stop treating dating like a game that they have to play, with strategies and tricks. For them, it's near impossible to truly present themselves over the internet, and women who may swipe left online or ignore messages might think differently if they were already there in front of them. They also argue that a clever opener is unwarranted to get their attention when they are themselves physically before them. Does online dating counter sexism, racism, and misogyny, and that dating apps ultimately create a culture that prioritizes sex over committed and lasting love? After all, why settle on one match when there may be someone better just a swipe away? Those in favor of the motion can begin their defense/arguments with [For]. Those who are against this motion can begin their criticism / arguments with [Against].
2020.01.31 21:48 pinotandsugarAshley Madison Extortion
There was a recent article on use of information obtained in a massive breach of Ashley Madison (https://www.cnbc.com/2020/01/31/ashley-madison-breach-from-2015-being-used-in-sextortion-scams.html) to extort money from active and former SB based on their communications on the site. Its another good reason to get off of SA at a relatively early time with a new sugar partner. Probably after the first M&G if you are to proceed. It is not only the theft of data from the site but also the relentless monetization of your information and fusion of data from many sources.
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(43 year-old, fit married male) I gave cheating a lot of exploration but have ultimately decided that my situation really isn't that bad - so I'm stopping the search, having found no affair partner. Although sex with my wife is few and far between, she stays fit, is a good cook, and a great mom. When we do manage to have date nights, we have a fun time. There's still some attraction. That, on top many of the descriptions here of much worse situations, emotional turmoil, guilt, and an awfully scammy site called Ashley Madison - I'm putting this idea down for now. I think I was just being a greedy asshole trying to have his cake and eat it too. Hopefully things will get better when the kids get older. Thanks to those who responded with encouragement or discouragement. It was super helpful in my education.
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